Here are 5 signs that could mean you’re not the only lady in his love life.
He Tells the Same Story Twice (or three times?)
Chances are, he peddled this story to 3 other girls last week, so he forgot he already told you the adorable tale about flying across the country to surprise his mom on her b-day. It doesn’t necessarily mean you should run for the hills, but if he’s telling you multiple stories twice, it’s a sign that you probably aren’t even the only girl he’s “seriously” dating.
He Asks You the Same Questions
When he asks “where did you go to college?” when you JUST told him about your SEC school’s raging tailgate parties last weekend, he either isn’t listening or is seeing other girls and can’t keep his facts straight. Either way, who wants to deal with that?
He Only Commits to Certain Days of the Week
Sure, he could have super OCD tendencies OR he’s keeping his dating options open. If he only wants to see you on Fridays, it could mean he’s stacking his dates the rest of the week.
He Sends a Text That Doesn’t Quite Make Sense
If you get a text saying something like “I’m at (insert bougie NYC club), and it’s not the same without you” but you’ve NEVER been to that club with him, he probs drunkenly texted the wrong girl.
You Find Another Girl’s Stuff at His Apartment
Don’t try to convince yourself it was left over from an “ex” girlfriend or even worse, a “friend”. If you happen to notice a woman’s necklace on his bathroom counter, he probably had someone else over the night before and forgot to hide the evidence – let’s be realistic.